Saturday, January 24, 2009

Prayer for Bobby

As I flip from channel to channel I came upon this movie. I got stuck. It's more poignant than I can describe.

The thought that comes to my mind, as I watch children in the conservative school I teach in, is it's so important to thoughtfully accept people - not necessarily their actions. It is not wrong to question a person about who they are, if for clarity. It is not alright to judge. It is also not wrong for the person asking to like or dislike their answers to the questions. It is wrong for them to judge them and disclose judgement, especially when that judgement is critical or accusatory for the answers or life choices shared.

Even God never gave the power for man to judge man - meaning their worthiness or sacredness of being human. According to scripture, that one solely belongs to him. Yet man all too often entitles himself as accurate judge of man. And it all starts in elementary school - cool vs uncool, proper vs improper, acceptable vs unacceptable, greater vs less.

Why do people persecute the harmless and fear the harmful? This is one of the ugly truths seen all too often in schools.

When I can, I am anxious to see the entire movie.

And I'll remember to ask when I think someone is not worthy of patience, effort, or understanding, "Who the hell are you to call them unworthy? Who said you were?"

Difference is not a problem to be fixed, merely a description to be recognized and understood.

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