One of the guest conductors is 52. That's not all that remarkable, but as he was downing his 2nd or 3rd cocktail, he and I began discussing children. He mentioned that he and his wife just had a baby!!! Wow!! At 52 with a 0 year old. But as he talked about it, it was funny how unshocked I was. He seemed to be a very alive man with a great deal of energy and things to offer. But, after time had passed, I did register what a risk that may have been. I mean, I wonder if he and his wife talked and tried for this or if it was one of those happy surprises. Now was is well, but as he mentioned, he can't help but wonder what things will look like in 15 years.Well regardless, I wish them the best. These things do remind me that although the circumstances were less than ideal, having my son at 23 was a wonderful thing. I do wonder if and when I'll ride that ride again, and if and when I'll decide when it's no longer feasible.... if the decision isn't made for me before that. As of now, circumstances more favorable than the last run, I think I'd like to have another one or two. If that's not to be though, I am very happy and grateful for my one. :-)
The concert was very fine as well. It's impressive to see what a group of high schoolers can synthesize in 2+ days of rehearsal. It's inspirational even.
Today Little C and I worked on school work. Kiddo seems to be getting hammered as he had math, 1 paragraph, 1 paper and a spelling contract to tackle, but I also think some of that may be that he may not be using some of his classtime wisely. Ah,the adventures of academia begin. His imagination is great, but his ability to write and put together information and detailneeds some attention. Glasses up to webs, outlines, rough drafts and revisions. Good times. :-L
Well there it is. My exciting life ;-). Here's looking forward to a week of concerts and a convention in Greeley. At least we get next Monday off. w00t!!!!
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52 with a newborn sounds scary to me. My dad turned 52 the YEAR JACK WAS BORN! Makes me feel better though about the prospect of having a newborn a couple months shy of 35. That was stressing me a little. Not much, but certainly more than with the first two. Interesting though that the parents of Jack's peers in kindergarten are very diversified, age-wise. So obviously ppl do what works best for them and better to have kids when the time is right for you--after all, age is just a number, right? The key is bringing a child into a loving, nurturing environment. Better to be a great parent at 52 than to be a scum-of-the-earth "parent" at 22 (http://www.herald-mail.com/?cmd=displaystory&story_id=237607&format=html). *sigh*
Yeah. Health, energy and mental state are key I think. Because, anyone can.... leave at anytime... life that is. But if you are healthy, happy, loving and responsible, all is well. I know it's early but, have you guys discussed a number four? Did we talk about that at dinner??? Sorry if I forgot :-(.
Yeah, we've discussed a number four, in that it's not gonna happen! I suppose anything is possible, but I think we're both on the same page with seeing this one as the last.
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